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I came into being simply through going to junior high school and high school. I was always called Tammy and I never corrected them. I have been here through the 23 years of marriage, in fact I dealt with Charles abuse on a daily basis. I kept thinking that he loved me because he said so and nobody in my growing up family ever said that to me.But time when by and it took a great long time to realize that Charles was systematically abusing me on a daily basis.
I am the one who has been very needy just because of my upbringing. I see that now because I put up with so much for such a long time. Although I stayed around for a few years after I left my husband soon Tamara realized she did not need my so-called help. This is when her strength came to the fore. She is not needy anymore. She has come into her own as they say!