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I have had some alters that are in some ways like Tamara and they were very important in the long run of my life. I must admit that in life we have different points in our growth both emotionally and mentally and physically. As life has changed there were others such as Tammy who being so emotionally young and weak and so afraid of being alone. She was so weak that she stayed with he first husband for more years then should have necessary.
Many do not realize all the abuse that was heaped upon her for many years. She thought that she loved him just simply because he reminded her of her father. Of course then she had no idea about the severe abuse that either one of them put upon her. Tammy always she could not live without a man in her life. She would sacrifice anything to keep a man in her life even severe abuse and trauma.
During Tammy's marriage to Charles she could not cope with everything that went on in a family life, therefore Tam cam to the fore and she was the alter that was extremely strong. If you looked at her ,her arms were very muscular and she was very tall.When she spoke everyone would be sure listen.
Tam was so absolutely strong in so many ways that no one could compare to her. She took care with the children and everything that Tammy should have taken care. However, Tammy was very weak! She could not survive without a man, even though life goes on!. Life goes on without Tammy! Thank God she is not around!